Self-Compassion: A Guided Meditation
- Heather Hayes
- Mar 28, 2024
- 2 min read
Updated: Apr 15, 2024
Make yourself comfortable. Once settled, close your eyes or soften your gaze. Become mindful of your breath. Breath naturally and focus your awareness on the physical sensations of breathing in and breathing out. Spend a few moments breathing and focusing on your breath.
Now, allow yourself to bring your awareness and attention to the feelings of compassion, lovingkindness, or deep and abiding care and concern. Bring to mind someone who is dear and precious to you. Imagine yourself enfolding this person in that feeling.
Share these thoughts with this person:
May you know a decrease in distress
May you know peace and tranquility
May you know happiness and joy
May you be able to deal with your suffering
Continue to imagine this person. Holding this person in your mind, send them loving, kind, and compassionate thoughts.
Notice how this feels in your body. What are the physical sensations that come to you when you connect with feelings of lovingkindness and compassion? What are the images and thoughts that come to mind? Just notice these thoughts, physical sensations, and emotions. Notice them with gentle curiosity, without judgement.
Now, direct some of that lovingkindness, compassion, and deep abiding care towards yourself. Send yourself these thoughts:
May I know a decrease in distress
May I know peace and tranquility
May I know happiness and joy
May I be able to deal with my suffering
Hold yourself in your mind and continue to send yourself this lovingkindness and compassion. Allow yourself to feel the physical sensations that accompany these thoughts. Bring your attention, mindfulness, and awareness back to your breath. When you are ready, open your eyes and return to the here and now.


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